I’m sorry Jeff waited so long before seeking help. What a crushing blow it must have been for both of you when you got the news. My dad had an aggressive lymphoma. He died only four months after having a triple bypass. Somehow they missed the cancer. When he started seeing double and having toothaches that mystified the dentist he finally went to the ER. They admitted him to the hospital and within a week he was gone. My mom was blindsided, since she was still in denial that he really had cancer.
I’m pretty sure this experience has given Valentine’s Day a whole new meaning for you. I wish you healing.